In this day and age, men are constantly faced with females who are scorned, hurt and scared do to their past relationships. I won't lie, emotional pain is always harder to deal with then physical pain. So it is a fact that the these women are truly hurt.
But as men we constantly ask ourselves what can we do for her to realize that I won't put her through those same situations? What does it take for her to realize I am not him? I am not saying I am perfect in any way, shape, or form, but I am myself. I am not every, or any other man that has come before me. Like a friend once told me, "relationships' final results are always either one of two things 1 they last forever or 2 they end." It does not take a rocket scientist to figure that out. But the problems with that is not everyone is looking for a husband or wife, nor will someone start a relationship they know is going to end. You really never know. So now we are faced with another issue that I won't address just read, "How Perfect is a Perfect Pair" to see my opinion on that matter.
Back to my opinion on breaking down women's barriers. For the longest time, as a matter of fact, forever until now, I told my self it takes the right guy to break down a woman's barrier, or the right amount of time put in for a barrier to be broken down. The only problem with that is that gives a guy time to shy away from the female and not want to talk to the female anymore. This becomes a reality for one of three reason: "Loss of interest, found another girl, heard a rumor friend, for example, "she is a rat"(I quote a friend on this) But after all is said and done,the time is put in or "that guy" comes along. They put them up so the must take them down on there own, we can't control these things...The barrier being taken down is still the woman's decision.
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I must admit it does become hard to trust again bein hurt but it also takes courage to love again. there are some who refuse to let there heart smile. everyone deserves to smile.
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