Day in and day out we may hear a female generalize and speak about how all guys are dog and that they all cheat and blah blah blah but let's be honest, those are the females that have dealt with the same type of guys. Facts prove that females cheat just as much as males do. It has nothing with who gets caught or
not, it just happens. When an individual cheats, there are things that come into play and its not always the male specifically.
Let's begin with unhappiness. If your partner isn't happy in the relationship then your mate is tempted to find their happiness but lets not forget that this is also where a lot of people go wrong and the give up 80 for 20 and end up with nothing.
Next I believe karma plays a role. If you have cheated before, you are bound to get cheated on, that's just that. There is also the issue if you did something trifling that wasn't that serious but as pay back your partner crosses that line.
Now what I think is the biggest reason why people cheat that effects males and females is a test of character. a person's ability to fight temptation. This is always around whether you realize it or not.
A Relationship is a Commitment. Cheating is an Option, Being Faithful is a responsibility!!!
A Single Misconception...
I've come to realize that most of my blogs are about relationships. The funny
part is I'm not in one but that's not something I will blog about. The idea of
wanting to be single...what a thought. Everyone says the don't want to deal
with the drama and obligation of a relationship...SMH! You are all lazy
Americans at your best if that is your case. I've come to the realization that
no matter how single you want to be, that you never want to be lonely. You
either aren't willing to wear the title of someone's Man/Girl, or you just
aren't willing to work at something to keep it strong. At the other hand there
are those people who feel as though they can't function with out being in a
relationship.
I want to make something clear. A relationship and being a single are both by
choice.
But there is two sides to this. Like someone said the other day "Just because
I am single doesn't mean I a looking". Some people are single for reasons that
have nothing to do with the next individual. Some girls or some guys are
always presented with the question "Why are you single?" I personally get
offended by that question. No matter how good looking or nice you think the
person may be, what about them says the have to be in a relationship? My aunt
and mother have this idea that I can't just have a female friend. Some may
have the same problem. If they spent a day with me at URI then they would
think I was a hoe but back to the topic.
Why are people single? What are they lonely? Are they happy? Is something
wrong with them? I don't know...mind your own damn business thank you very
much!
part is I'm not in one but that's not something I will blog about. The idea of
wanting to be single...what a thought. Everyone says the don't want to deal
with the drama and obligation of a relationship...SMH! You are all lazy
Americans at your best if that is your case. I've come to the realization that
no matter how single you want to be, that you never want to be lonely. You
either aren't willing to wear the title of someone's Man/Girl, or you just
aren't willing to work at something to keep it strong. At the other hand there
are those people who feel as though they can't function with out being in a
relationship.
I want to make something clear. A relationship and being a single are both by
choice.
But there is two sides to this. Like someone said the other day "Just because
I am single doesn't mean I a looking". Some people are single for reasons that
have nothing to do with the next individual. Some girls or some guys are
always presented with the question "Why are you single?" I personally get
offended by that question. No matter how good looking or nice you think the
person may be, what about them says the have to be in a relationship? My aunt
and mother have this idea that I can't just have a female friend. Some may
have the same problem. If they spent a day with me at URI then they would
think I was a hoe but back to the topic.
Why are people single? What are they lonely? Are they happy? Is something
wrong with them? I don't know...mind your own damn business thank you very
much!
Shame to Shameless and Vise Versa!!!
Every second, minute, and hour, people make a connection. You look at each
other and then you hit it off. You may never know the next person's past but
yet you may still take the chance to make a solid connection with a stranger.
You come to realize that there will always be a point in your life where you
meet an individual and you either have an idea of who they were in the past or
something they did that blemished their character. Some things are more
drastic than others but some will still have a couple skeletons in the closet.
People don't realize this but I was once told by a friend that "you may meet a
male/female that will be worth it all." I'm not just talking about the people
who claim they don't do oral or anything sexually or even anything they don't
fully believe in. There is going to be a person that you would be willing to
do it all for, whether husband/wife or not. I'm speaking more about what isn't
done behind close doors that the public seed and what society will voice an
opinion on. There might be a girl who was a rat in high school and have a
change of life style in college or a man who was a player in high school but
isn't in college (and just so people don't get it twisted a player and a hoe
are the same thing). Some individuals may be faced with this situation some
day, and you may tell your self now that you will never take a man that was
known as a cheater or guys won't take a woman with "too many miles" (a female
that has had sex with a lot of guys) but in reality no one can tell the
future. If you finally meet some one, they can tell you anything they choose
to tell you and even worst not tell you what they don't want to; so months on
in you can find something out that is crazy some will stay and some won't.
Just remember there is a lot more to life then the thrill of a chase!!!!
other and then you hit it off. You may never know the next person's past but
yet you may still take the chance to make a solid connection with a stranger.
You come to realize that there will always be a point in your life where you
meet an individual and you either have an idea of who they were in the past or
something they did that blemished their character. Some things are more
drastic than others but some will still have a couple skeletons in the closet.
People don't realize this but I was once told by a friend that "you may meet a
male/female that will be worth it all." I'm not just talking about the people
who claim they don't do oral or anything sexually or even anything they don't
fully believe in. There is going to be a person that you would be willing to
do it all for, whether husband/wife or not. I'm speaking more about what isn't
done behind close doors that the public seed and what society will voice an
opinion on. There might be a girl who was a rat in high school and have a
change of life style in college or a man who was a player in high school but
isn't in college (and just so people don't get it twisted a player and a hoe
are the same thing). Some individuals may be faced with this situation some
day, and you may tell your self now that you will never take a man that was
known as a cheater or guys won't take a woman with "too many miles" (a female
that has had sex with a lot of guys) but in reality no one can tell the
future. If you finally meet some one, they can tell you anything they choose
to tell you and even worst not tell you what they don't want to; so months on
in you can find something out that is crazy some will stay and some won't.
Just remember there is a lot more to life then the thrill of a chase!!!!
I Think I'm In Love Love Love!!!!
Ideally every man or women in this world is looking for love. Some will search high and low, all for something that they are truly uncertain of what it may be. If you look back into your life you can probably remember telling someone that you love that you are uncertain of what it actually might mean but you still made the statement. When you ask people that are "in love" what it means to be "in love" you are bound to get a lot of different answers. However everyone has there own set of opinions on what it may mean but one thing is for certain; that love is happiness. No matter how u look at it, it is happiness. Whether its love in a material form, love in a friend, or love in a mate, you say the words "I love you" because it something or someone that brings you happiness. Now a days people tend to use the world extremely loosely. Others may believe that the word love isn't said or used enough but ideally, love is happiness and happiness is love!!!
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