Honestly since when was giving up your dignity the cool thing to do for some fame, their are so many individuals that will stop at nothing to become some form of a celebrity in this world. In all honestly that sort of devalues what fame truly is. The female with the hottest buzz right now is Kat Stacks and not because she has do anything important. All this women has done is have sex, like YAY your a slut! But to some people she is a celebrity...
There are Rules To This Shit...
At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down! Finally, the guys’ side of the story ( I must admit, it’s pretty good) We always hear ‘ the rules ‘ from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side:
These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered ‘1 ‘ ON PURPOSE!
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say ‘nothing,’ We will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine… Really .
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
Pass this to as many men as you can - to give them a laugh.
Pass this to as many women as you can - to give them a bigger laugh.
These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered ‘1 ‘ ON PURPOSE!
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say ‘nothing,’ We will act like nothing’s wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine… Really .
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
Pass this to as many men as you can - to give them a laugh.
Pass this to as many women as you can - to give them a bigger laugh.
Its All About Progression
"Youth should be radical. Youth should demand change in the world. Youth should not accept the old order if the world is to move on. But the old orders should not be moved easily -- certainly not at the mere whim or behest of youth. There must be clash and if youth hasn't enough force or fervor to produce the clash the world grows stale and stagnant and sour in decay."
-William Allen White
-William Allen White
Oil & Water Dont Mix!!
Two substance similar but yet so different, fit in the same areas But yet flow different and never mix..
You may be a little confused at this point on where I am going with this. But I recently found it so interesting to see how Females, Males, Minorities, Non Minorities, all share things in common within them selfs and can be but in the same place but never find a way to mix. Weather shaken up or broken down, we will still have two different substances. In order to understand every one has to think deeper and below the surface. I'm not talking about every single female as one, but there are groups of female that are similar to an extent but yet don't mix, same things goes for males. Now the minorities and Non minorities as a whole is a little different. Because we as a whole are naturally separated unless something drastic or very important that affect us all then we attempt to come as one. But even then we are divided.
Now I'm going to take another quick little turn and mix male and females and also mix Minorities and Non Minorities. When you look at either one of the examples its a lot easier to determine which one is the oil and which is the water. But weather it is a gender difference or a racial the confusion comes from the same place. That being when one tries to understand the other its impossible to try and understand something that doesn't understand itself(example: you can not figure out a man until the man has himself figured out) is there a way we can solve this problem?
Some might be expecting a long enlightening paragraph, but the answer is simply NO. They are different for a reason and it will stay that way, they can only do their best to try but humans are by far the hardest things to understand!!(Blog about humans coming soon)
Now I'm going to take another quick little turn and mix male and females and also mix Minorities and Non Minorities. When you look at either one of the examples its a lot easier to determine which one is the oil and which is the water. But weather it is a gender difference or a racial the confusion comes from the same place. That being when one tries to understand the other its impossible to try and understand something that doesn't understand itself(example: you can not figure out a man until the man has himself figured out) is there a way we can solve this problem?
Some might be expecting a long enlightening paragraph, but the answer is simply NO. They are different for a reason and it will stay that way, they can only do their best to try but humans are by far the hardest things to understand!!(Blog about humans coming soon)
Never Settle For Less!!!
Complacency Kills, Determination Deteriorates, Motivation moves in many ways
What will it take to keep you striving?
Obama Is King!!!!
Yes the fact is our president is black! But can we not forget were the fight began for us to even be able to say the words "Our President Is Black" without getting beat up or thrown in jail. It isn't black history month but we can still appreciate where our freedom as minorities came from.
He'll Do What She Wont...She'll Do What He Scared to Do
- A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants.
- A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want.
- A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
- A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
- A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
- A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
- To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
- To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
- Married men live longer than single men.
- But married men are a lot more willing to die.
- Any married man should forget his mistakes.
- No sense two people remembering the same thing.
- Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
- Women somehow deteriorate during the night.
- A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
- A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.
- A woman has the last word in any argument.
- Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
If You Believe It Then Its True....
This is a post about the top ten lies one sex may say to the other i casually stumbled upon this and didn't feel as though it would be right to only post women lies but also men lies even though we may not all agree with these lies.
~Males Say to Females~
10.No,you don't look fat
9.I don't enjoy going to Strip Joints
8.Well talk about it Later
7.I'm not in it fir the sex
6.I love Your Cooking
5.I don't think of other women
4. Yes, I am Listening
3. I'd Love to meet your parents
2.Why Yes, I am Single
1.I'm sorry
~Female Say to Males~
10.Size Doesn't Matter
9.You're The Best
8.Yes, I had an Orgasm
-37-50% of females have or will lie about an orgasm
7.Go, Have Fun With the Guys
6.I Promise, I Wont Get Mad
5.Forgive and Forget
-it is scientifically impossible to forget as in erase from you mind!
4.I'm Not Mad
3.I don't know if i want to get married
2.I love you just the way you are
1.I love your friends
10.No,you don't look fat
9.I don't enjoy going to Strip Joints
8.Well talk about it Later
7.I'm not in it fir the sex
6.I love Your Cooking
5.I don't think of other women
4. Yes, I am Listening
3. I'd Love to meet your parents
2.Why Yes, I am Single
1.I'm sorry
Ps: if you can find facts(actual facts) to prove these lies or even more frequently used lies email me Donzzle@gmail.com and i will post it thank you!!!
All We Want To Do Is Get There...
Everyone's Steps are different but the outcome reaches the same Plateau..
-Monsurat E. Ajasa
-Monsurat E. Ajasa
Breaking Down Barriers..
Some ladies build walls around their heart just 2 see who has the courage 2 break em down (#dontfallforitfellas) - @RevRunWisdom
In this day and age, men are constantly faced with females who are scorned, hurt and scared do to their past relationships. I won't lie, emotional pain is always harder to deal with then physical pain. So it is a fact that the these women are truly hurt.
But as men we constantly ask ourselves what can we do for her to realize that I won't put her through those same situations? What does it take for her to realize I am not him? I am not saying I am perfect in any way, shape, or form, but I am myself. I am not every, or any other man that has come before me. Like a friend once told me, "relationships' final results are always either one of two things 1 they last forever or 2 they end." It does not take a rocket scientist to figure that out. But the problems with that is not everyone is looking for a husband or wife, nor will someone start a relationship they know is going to end. You really never know. So now we are faced with another issue that I won't address just read, "How Perfect is a Perfect Pair" to see my opinion on that matter.
Back to my opinion on breaking down women's barriers. For the longest time, as a matter of fact, forever until now, I told my self it takes the right guy to break down a woman's barrier, or the right amount of time put in for a barrier to be broken down. The only problem with that is that gives a guy time to shy away from the female and not want to talk to the female anymore. This becomes a reality for one of three reason: "Loss of interest, found another girl, heard a rumor friend, for example, "she is a rat"(I quote a friend on this) But after all is said and done,the time is put in or "that guy" comes along. They put them up so the must take them down on there own, we can't control these things...The barrier being taken down is still the woman's decision.
In this day and age, men are constantly faced with females who are scorned, hurt and scared do to their past relationships. I won't lie, emotional pain is always harder to deal with then physical pain. So it is a fact that the these women are truly hurt.
But as men we constantly ask ourselves what can we do for her to realize that I won't put her through those same situations? What does it take for her to realize I am not him? I am not saying I am perfect in any way, shape, or form, but I am myself. I am not every, or any other man that has come before me. Like a friend once told me, "relationships' final results are always either one of two things 1 they last forever or 2 they end." It does not take a rocket scientist to figure that out. But the problems with that is not everyone is looking for a husband or wife, nor will someone start a relationship they know is going to end. You really never know. So now we are faced with another issue that I won't address just read, "How Perfect is a Perfect Pair" to see my opinion on that matter.
Back to my opinion on breaking down women's barriers. For the longest time, as a matter of fact, forever until now, I told my self it takes the right guy to break down a woman's barrier, or the right amount of time put in for a barrier to be broken down. The only problem with that is that gives a guy time to shy away from the female and not want to talk to the female anymore. This becomes a reality for one of three reason: "Loss of interest, found another girl, heard a rumor friend, for example, "she is a rat"(I quote a friend on this) But after all is said and done,the time is put in or "that guy" comes along. They put them up so the must take them down on there own, we can't control these things...The barrier being taken down is still the woman's decision.
When The Love Is Gone!!!
Dear Hoswizzle,
I recently had my first love experience. It was far from the fairy tale storyline. As a matter of fact it was so uniquely horrible i could probably make money off it. However, despite the misery it was the strongest, most intense feeling I've ever felt in my life. It consumed me and effected every aspect of my life (in a negative nature for the most part) My grades plummeted, my athletic performance spiraled downward, and my relationships with everyone else around me suffered. I was so drained from trying to pretend i was okay that there were many days i just couldn't get out of bed. Enough of the bad news. The good news is that I got through it and got over it. But have I really? I remember when just the thought of me possibly being happy with someone else caused me to panic and quickly brush the thought to the side because it hurt so much to think about the possibility of me moving on to someone who....actually made me smile more than cry. Now i have NO desire to be with this person anymore. I still care about him, but I'm finally turned off by the way he treated me and it only took me over a year. Now, i find myself unhappy and i really couldn't figure out why until yesterday. It's not because i want him back, or because i want someone else. It's because I feel sad that I went through all that intense emotion and not only the person, but the feeling that was once so much a part of my life is completely gone. Not even a friendship remains. I haven't finished evaluating my sentiments about this topic. It sounds too superficial and cliche to say i miss being in love, especially since it was such a miserable experience. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that i highly doubt that i'll ever fall that deep ever again. I fell quickly, gave it everything, trusted blindly, and loved unconditionally. I don't think anyone will want to attempt to break down all the barriers i built as a result of my first less than lovely experience. I'm not bitter, I'm not angry, I'm not vengeful, or regretful. I guess i'm still trying to find a word that can capture how i feel after the love is gone.
Fairy Tale is a Fairy Tale for a reason. There is rarely happy endings. That is all Based on how you define Happiness. Even in your wedding vows it states "Till Death Do Us Part" Death is never portrayed as a happy event in life. It Clearly represents the end of something(Happiness)
Forgiven but never forgotten. People always say that they want the thought gone from their minds. What they don't know it is scientifically impossible for a thought to be forgotten. The brain works in the way that certain things can trigger a thought or a memory. It is impossible to rewrite the past but you can surely shape the future. So never think of an event in life as a crutch but instead a strength that gives you your individuality!!!
is it Worth The Work?!?
Everyday we set a new goal or a new task we would like to accomplish in our lives. Just for the record talk is cheap!!!
It means nothing±counts for nothing = Nothing
The reason people achieve things in there life is strictly because they apply themselves. Hard work pays off. The time you put in you will be given back in the long run. I'm rambling with no point right now. Put you did read the title.
Is what you want worth the work? There are things in your life that you may say you want but over time you realize you don't need as bad or just truly don't want it as much as you thought. The risk or time and effort was not worth the reward. This can happen in anything you may think of school, a career, or a relationship.
People always do this unconsciously. So next time you say I want this or want that ask yourself what are you willing to put into it. I don't mean how many times you are willing to think about it. Ask yourself are you willing to take a loss before actually succeeding? Are you willing to crawl before you can run?
It means nothing±counts for nothing = Nothing
The reason people achieve things in there life is strictly because they apply themselves. Hard work pays off. The time you put in you will be given back in the long run. I'm rambling with no point right now. Put you did read the title.
Is what you want worth the work? There are things in your life that you may say you want but over time you realize you don't need as bad or just truly don't want it as much as you thought. The risk or time and effort was not worth the reward. This can happen in anything you may think of school, a career, or a relationship.
People always do this unconsciously. So next time you say I want this or want that ask yourself what are you willing to put into it. I don't mean how many times you are willing to think about it. Ask yourself are you willing to take a loss before actually succeeding? Are you willing to crawl before you can run?
The Pursuit of Happiness...
Yes, the blog is inspired by the movie, but its crazy how we put ourselves in a positions to be successful because to us, that is what will make us happy. But to the college students reading this, have you ever sat and thought if you could be happy in the long run without having to pay so much money? To those who can't afford college or choose not to come are you happy? Do you think that college is a way to gain happiness?
Well the answer to all those questions are no. Happiness isn't generally found in material things. There is always a deeper meaning to a persons happiness. Hence why happiness can be obtained in so many different ways.
" We are not happy individually. There are just moments in your life that make you happy or events that occur that make you happy."
The quote may sound strange but think deep about it. If you receive a material thing, it's not the item that makes you happy, but actually what the item can do for you that brings you happiness. Maybe just the fact that you received this item made you happy. In regards to relationships, it comes down to what you gain from the relationship because it is possible to be in an unhealthy or unhappy relationship. In college it's easy to explain. Someone is always doing all the work in order to get a piece of paper to show your ability to do something. At the end of the day all the time and work that was put in will bring you your happiness!!!!
Well the answer to all those questions are no. Happiness isn't generally found in material things. There is always a deeper meaning to a persons happiness. Hence why happiness can be obtained in so many different ways.
" We are not happy individually. There are just moments in your life that make you happy or events that occur that make you happy."
The quote may sound strange but think deep about it. If you receive a material thing, it's not the item that makes you happy, but actually what the item can do for you that brings you happiness. Maybe just the fact that you received this item made you happy. In regards to relationships, it comes down to what you gain from the relationship because it is possible to be in an unhealthy or unhappy relationship. In college it's easy to explain. Someone is always doing all the work in order to get a piece of paper to show your ability to do something. At the end of the day all the time and work that was put in will bring you your happiness!!!!
The THRILL Of The Chase!!!!
The title is clearly self explanatory, but the meaning is not always understood. It's something males and females both do, but it may be for different reasons. A male may want see how far a female is willing to go with out having to be in a relationship. A female may want to see how close and open she can get a male with out a relationship. One thing is certain, no matter what the gender, the motive is personal gratification.
~A Female Perspective~
A girl likes all the attention they receive during "the chase". If a girl gets a great deal of attention too easily, and too fast, she will get bored. If she doesn't get enough attention then you risk losing HER attention. Once it's lost it's harder to get it back. You only get one first impression. I'm sure there are girls who like to do the chasing, but i can't think of any off the top. The most important thing is maintaining a balance. In my opinion, if you give a girl EVERYTHING she wants, you're setting yourself up to either get left or get played. There needs to be a medium of give and take. So in order to preserve the longevity of the "thrill", make sure your chase is more of a steady jog, rather than a sprint. ( Ms. Anonymous)
~A Male Perspective~
The thrill of the chase comes from the satisfaction we as guys feel when we 'conquer'. When a girl tells you, "you ain't gonna bag", you gonna do everything in your power to change her perception of you. We do the little things cause we wanna prove her wrong. And once we convince, its a small victory for our ego.
(Mr. Anonymous)
These are the perspectives offered by two actual people of the opposite gender, I didn't make the shit up. You notice that they both do it for two different reason. But that's not to say that is how ever Male/Female feels. We can easily just swap the to gender and the perspectives would still make sense.
~A Female Perspective~
A girl likes all the attention they receive during "the chase". If a girl gets a great deal of attention too easily, and too fast, she will get bored. If she doesn't get enough attention then you risk losing HER attention. Once it's lost it's harder to get it back. You only get one first impression. I'm sure there are girls who like to do the chasing, but i can't think of any off the top. The most important thing is maintaining a balance. In my opinion, if you give a girl EVERYTHING she wants, you're setting yourself up to either get left or get played. There needs to be a medium of give and take. So in order to preserve the longevity of the "thrill", make sure your chase is more of a steady jog, rather than a sprint. ( Ms. Anonymous)
~A Male Perspective~
The thrill of the chase comes from the satisfaction we as guys feel when we 'conquer'. When a girl tells you, "you ain't gonna bag", you gonna do everything in your power to change her perception of you. We do the little things cause we wanna prove her wrong. And once we convince, its a small victory for our ego.
(Mr. Anonymous)
These are the perspectives offered by two actual people of the opposite gender, I didn't make the shit up. You notice that they both do it for two different reason. But that's not to say that is how ever Male/Female feels. We can easily just swap the to gender and the perspectives would still make sense.
My Minds Telling Me No, But My Body Is Telling Me Yes!!
Day in and day out we may hear a female generalize and speak about how all guys are dog and that they all cheat and blah blah blah but let's be honest, those are the females that have dealt with the same type of guys. Facts prove that females cheat just as much as males do. It has nothing with who gets caught or
not, it just happens. When an individual cheats, there are things that come into play and its not always the male specifically.
Let's begin with unhappiness. If your partner isn't happy in the relationship then your mate is tempted to find their happiness but lets not forget that this is also where a lot of people go wrong and the give up 80 for 20 and end up with nothing.
Next I believe karma plays a role. If you have cheated before, you are bound to get cheated on, that's just that. There is also the issue if you did something trifling that wasn't that serious but as pay back your partner crosses that line.
Now what I think is the biggest reason why people cheat that effects males and females is a test of character. a person's ability to fight temptation. This is always around whether you realize it or not.
A Relationship is a Commitment. Cheating is an Option, Being Faithful is a responsibility!!!
not, it just happens. When an individual cheats, there are things that come into play and its not always the male specifically.
Let's begin with unhappiness. If your partner isn't happy in the relationship then your mate is tempted to find their happiness but lets not forget that this is also where a lot of people go wrong and the give up 80 for 20 and end up with nothing.
Next I believe karma plays a role. If you have cheated before, you are bound to get cheated on, that's just that. There is also the issue if you did something trifling that wasn't that serious but as pay back your partner crosses that line.
Now what I think is the biggest reason why people cheat that effects males and females is a test of character. a person's ability to fight temptation. This is always around whether you realize it or not.
A Relationship is a Commitment. Cheating is an Option, Being Faithful is a responsibility!!!
A Single Misconception...
I've come to realize that most of my blogs are about relationships. The funny
part is I'm not in one but that's not something I will blog about. The idea of
wanting to be single...what a thought. Everyone says the don't want to deal
with the drama and obligation of a relationship...SMH! You are all lazy
Americans at your best if that is your case. I've come to the realization that
no matter how single you want to be, that you never want to be lonely. You
either aren't willing to wear the title of someone's Man/Girl, or you just
aren't willing to work at something to keep it strong. At the other hand there
are those people who feel as though they can't function with out being in a
relationship.
I want to make something clear. A relationship and being a single are both by
choice.
But there is two sides to this. Like someone said the other day "Just because
I am single doesn't mean I a looking". Some people are single for reasons that
have nothing to do with the next individual. Some girls or some guys are
always presented with the question "Why are you single?" I personally get
offended by that question. No matter how good looking or nice you think the
person may be, what about them says the have to be in a relationship? My aunt
and mother have this idea that I can't just have a female friend. Some may
have the same problem. If they spent a day with me at URI then they would
think I was a hoe but back to the topic.
Why are people single? What are they lonely? Are they happy? Is something
wrong with them? I don't know...mind your own damn business thank you very
much!
part is I'm not in one but that's not something I will blog about. The idea of
wanting to be single...what a thought. Everyone says the don't want to deal
with the drama and obligation of a relationship...SMH! You are all lazy
Americans at your best if that is your case. I've come to the realization that
no matter how single you want to be, that you never want to be lonely. You
either aren't willing to wear the title of someone's Man/Girl, or you just
aren't willing to work at something to keep it strong. At the other hand there
are those people who feel as though they can't function with out being in a
relationship.
I want to make something clear. A relationship and being a single are both by
choice.
But there is two sides to this. Like someone said the other day "Just because
I am single doesn't mean I a looking". Some people are single for reasons that
have nothing to do with the next individual. Some girls or some guys are
always presented with the question "Why are you single?" I personally get
offended by that question. No matter how good looking or nice you think the
person may be, what about them says the have to be in a relationship? My aunt
and mother have this idea that I can't just have a female friend. Some may
have the same problem. If they spent a day with me at URI then they would
think I was a hoe but back to the topic.
Why are people single? What are they lonely? Are they happy? Is something
wrong with them? I don't know...mind your own damn business thank you very
much!
Shame to Shameless and Vise Versa!!!
Every second, minute, and hour, people make a connection. You look at each
other and then you hit it off. You may never know the next person's past but
yet you may still take the chance to make a solid connection with a stranger.
You come to realize that there will always be a point in your life where you
meet an individual and you either have an idea of who they were in the past or
something they did that blemished their character. Some things are more
drastic than others but some will still have a couple skeletons in the closet.
People don't realize this but I was once told by a friend that "you may meet a
male/female that will be worth it all." I'm not just talking about the people
who claim they don't do oral or anything sexually or even anything they don't
fully believe in. There is going to be a person that you would be willing to
do it all for, whether husband/wife or not. I'm speaking more about what isn't
done behind close doors that the public seed and what society will voice an
opinion on. There might be a girl who was a rat in high school and have a
change of life style in college or a man who was a player in high school but
isn't in college (and just so people don't get it twisted a player and a hoe
are the same thing). Some individuals may be faced with this situation some
day, and you may tell your self now that you will never take a man that was
known as a cheater or guys won't take a woman with "too many miles" (a female
that has had sex with a lot of guys) but in reality no one can tell the
future. If you finally meet some one, they can tell you anything they choose
to tell you and even worst not tell you what they don't want to; so months on
in you can find something out that is crazy some will stay and some won't.
Just remember there is a lot more to life then the thrill of a chase!!!!
other and then you hit it off. You may never know the next person's past but
yet you may still take the chance to make a solid connection with a stranger.
You come to realize that there will always be a point in your life where you
meet an individual and you either have an idea of who they were in the past or
something they did that blemished their character. Some things are more
drastic than others but some will still have a couple skeletons in the closet.
People don't realize this but I was once told by a friend that "you may meet a
male/female that will be worth it all." I'm not just talking about the people
who claim they don't do oral or anything sexually or even anything they don't
fully believe in. There is going to be a person that you would be willing to
do it all for, whether husband/wife or not. I'm speaking more about what isn't
done behind close doors that the public seed and what society will voice an
opinion on. There might be a girl who was a rat in high school and have a
change of life style in college or a man who was a player in high school but
isn't in college (and just so people don't get it twisted a player and a hoe
are the same thing). Some individuals may be faced with this situation some
day, and you may tell your self now that you will never take a man that was
known as a cheater or guys won't take a woman with "too many miles" (a female
that has had sex with a lot of guys) but in reality no one can tell the
future. If you finally meet some one, they can tell you anything they choose
to tell you and even worst not tell you what they don't want to; so months on
in you can find something out that is crazy some will stay and some won't.
Just remember there is a lot more to life then the thrill of a chase!!!!
I Think I'm In Love Love Love!!!!
Ideally every man or women in this world is looking for love. Some will search high and low, all for something that they are truly uncertain of what it may be. If you look back into your life you can probably remember telling someone that you love that you are uncertain of what it actually might mean but you still made the statement. When you ask people that are "in love" what it means to be "in love" you are bound to get a lot of different answers. However everyone has there own set of opinions on what it may mean but one thing is for certain; that love is happiness. No matter how u look at it, it is happiness. Whether its love in a material form, love in a friend, or love in a mate, you say the words "I love you" because it something or someone that brings you happiness. Now a days people tend to use the world extremely loosely. Others may believe that the word love isn't said or used enough but ideally, love is happiness and happiness is love!!!
The Truth Behind That Kinky Stuff!!!
Through out the years we have heard a lot of songs that are strongly based on sexual stimulation. In society sex sells there is no argument about that. But has some one ever sat and dissected what is being said or thought of the reality of what the musician is saying and Im not talking about calling head "Becky" because Plies says it, or anything that Too Short has ever said but more so in a classic that everyone knows as well as a more recently released track; Sexual Healing By Marvin Gaye and of course Medicine By Plies. Two completely different genres of music but still used to send a similar message. Everyone listens and says "oh he need/wants sex to feel better." How about we take a look at what doctors have to say about this. These may be all random facts, but who would ever think that something so pleasurable my be so healthy as well.
Sex Fact
-During 30 min of active sex a person burns approximately 200 calories
-A male that has sex at least once per week lowers the his chances for heart disease by 30% Diabetes 40% Stroke 50%
-Endorphins released during sexual activity creates a euphoria similar to that produced by opiate drug use. These same endorphins also act as an extremely effective pain killer.
- According to the museum of sex, the vibrator was originally used as a medical treatment for female "Hysteria"..
-Kissing is good, the extra saliva this is exchange helps teeth from decaying. With 60 seconds of kissing you lose 26 calories
-Sperm has a tightening effect on the skin, when left to dry it leave behind protein which help reduce wrinkles
-When women make love the produce amount of the hormone estrogen which makes there hair shine and skin smooth
-Men making Love reduces the chances of suffering from dermatitis (skin rashes & Blemishes)
-Sex is an instant cure for mild depression
So when you hear the phrases, "sexual healing" or "let me be your medicine" don't just think of the hooks to a track but that enough actual bumping and grinding can do the body good.. So freaks be freaks, it can lead to a healthier life....
Sexual Healing-Marvin Gaye
Plies-Medicine
What You Say Mean More Than What You Mean....
They say that when you speak and use a lot of profanity, (swear words for those who don't know), you are labeled as some one who is either ignorant or with a poor vocabulary. However, that isn't always the case. You can be honest by only expressing yourself. That is the power of words, but like everything in life for something positive there is always a negative.
There are people that use words in place of other words, (slang for some who didn't catch the hint), but what some might think is slang and cool to say may not know that there is deeper meaning in the word that they are saying. Day in and day out I know we all hear the word "Nigga" used to describe a fellow friend which comes from the word "Nigger", which is also an ethnic slur derived from the word "Negro". (Negro: A member of a Negroid Race), which is basically a race or Brown or Black pigments.
I'm not the type of guy to ever leisurely pick up and read a book which some can tell by my writing, but I actually read this book and will actually recommend it to all minorities...
How Perfect Is A Perfect Pair?
Nike, Rebox, Adidas, K-Swiss, Pumas, Jordan, Saconys or what ever pair of shoes that you may wear that's all on your individual liking. Something else that is based on you individual liking are relationships. People set out and say okay I want to find my Husband/Wife but its not that easy life isn't about mixing and matching until you find the perfect pair. Life or anything for that matter is not that easy. Look into your closet or better yet look at the shoes on you feet is that pair PERFECT for you?
When you want something that will last forever you don't want it to be luck or chance anything worth having should be worth working for. Look Back at you shoes I know some wise ass told themselves "Yea my shoes are PERFECT". But when you buy a pair its similar to starting a relationship. They look real good on you feet, He/She look real good by your side. And 2-3 month later everything can change they get scuffed or dusty/Yall begin to argue. The good thing with that is that they can be cleaned and brought back to new/ the relationship get stronger. But yet this still isn't your PERFECT Pair or Wife/ Husband.
But every one has a pair of shoes that they get tired of cleaning or wearing and they know in time they will have to replace them. But there are also shoes that you wear no matter what they look like,you wear them. For a couple different reasons you still appreciate them or its a comfortable fit. Back to the connection to a wife/Husband would only be a PERFECT fit if you break them in and scuff them a little and in order for that it will have to withstand the test of time..
When you want something that will last forever you don't want it to be luck or chance anything worth having should be worth working for. Look Back at you shoes I know some wise ass told themselves "Yea my shoes are PERFECT". But when you buy a pair its similar to starting a relationship. They look real good on you feet, He/She look real good by your side. And 2-3 month later everything can change they get scuffed or dusty/Yall begin to argue. The good thing with that is that they can be cleaned and brought back to new/ the relationship get stronger. But yet this still isn't your PERFECT Pair or Wife/ Husband.
But every one has a pair of shoes that they get tired of cleaning or wearing and they know in time they will have to replace them. But there are also shoes that you wear no matter what they look like,you wear them. For a couple different reasons you still appreciate them or its a comfortable fit. Back to the connection to a wife/Husband would only be a PERFECT fit if you break them in and scuff them a little and in order for that it will have to withstand the test of time..
What Represents You
Your Age Represents a number,
Your lifestyle represents your mindset
Your Mindset Represents your Character
Your Character Represents YOU!!!
A Simple Mind Never Understands A Simple Concept...
This week I learned what "SIMP" actually meant. It was quite interesting the word is derived from the word simple.. But It has more meaning. It is used to describe a simple minded individual. For example a man who flirt/Mack/spit game or what ever the term you used over Twitter or any other social network is a "SIMP". Now I realized that this word has been basically used to describe a male. I am yet to hear it used in the sense of a female. Another examples that has gotten more interesting the word does not just pertain to being simple, but also not being able to understand simple concepts or thing that are being show that you fail to understand. Yet again the example I have pertains to a male. If you are speaking to female and she gives you Short/Dry or one word answers then 8 times out of 10 the chances are she doesn't want to speak to you. If the event continue to happen then take the hint you "SIMP".. Now for all those that have read this and feel like you have been in the situation now you know what the female are calling you to there friend, on Twitter, Skype or what ever social network she may have!!!!
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