The title is clearly self explanatory, but the meaning is not always understood. It's something males and females both do, but it may be for different reasons. A male may want see how far a female is willing to go with out having to be in a relationship. A female may want to see how close and open she can get a male with out a relationship. One thing is certain, no matter what the gender, the motive is personal gratification.
~A Female Perspective~
A girl likes all the attention they receive during "the chase". If a girl gets a great deal of attention too easily, and too fast, she will get bored. If she doesn't get enough attention then you risk losing HER attention. Once it's lost it's harder to get it back. You only get one first impression. I'm sure there are girls who like to do the chasing, but i can't think of any off the top. The most important thing is maintaining a balance. In my opinion, if you give a girl EVERYTHING she wants, you're setting yourself up to either get left or get played. There needs to be a medium of give and take. So in order to preserve the longevity of the "thrill", make sure your chase is more of a steady jog, rather than a sprint. ( Ms. Anonymous)
~A Male Perspective~
The thrill of the chase comes from the satisfaction we as guys feel when we 'conquer'. When a girl tells you, "you ain't gonna bag", you gonna do everything in your power to change her perception of you. We do the little things cause we wanna prove her wrong. And once we convince, its a small victory for our ego.
(Mr. Anonymous)
These are the perspectives offered by two actual people of the opposite gender, I didn't make the shit up. You notice that they both do it for two different reason. But that's not to say that is how ever Male/Female feels. We can easily just swap the to gender and the perspectives would still make sense.
~A Female Perspective~
A girl likes all the attention they receive during "the chase". If a girl gets a great deal of attention too easily, and too fast, she will get bored. If she doesn't get enough attention then you risk losing HER attention. Once it's lost it's harder to get it back. You only get one first impression. I'm sure there are girls who like to do the chasing, but i can't think of any off the top. The most important thing is maintaining a balance. In my opinion, if you give a girl EVERYTHING she wants, you're setting yourself up to either get left or get played. There needs to be a medium of give and take. So in order to preserve the longevity of the "thrill", make sure your chase is more of a steady jog, rather than a sprint. ( Ms. Anonymous)
~A Male Perspective~
The thrill of the chase comes from the satisfaction we as guys feel when we 'conquer'. When a girl tells you, "you ain't gonna bag", you gonna do everything in your power to change her perception of you. We do the little things cause we wanna prove her wrong. And once we convince, its a small victory for our ego.
(Mr. Anonymous)
These are the perspectives offered by two actual people of the opposite gender, I didn't make the shit up. You notice that they both do it for two different reason. But that's not to say that is how ever Male/Female feels. We can easily just swap the to gender and the perspectives would still make sense.
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